How to Use Chopsticks for Beginners: Easy 5 Minute Step by Step Guide to Mastering the Art

If you're interested in learning how to use chopsticks the easy way, you've come to the right place!

This comprehensive blog post will guide you through the basics of using chopsticks, whether you're a beginner, a parent teaching your kids, or someone looking to brush up on proper technique. We will have you using chopsticks properly in no time!


Chopsticks are probably the most versatile Japanese kitchen utensil ever. It’s a fork, knife, pair of tongs, a whisk, and a steamer stand all in one. The only issue is, learning how to use them can be a daunting task. 

Here's where Sonosopa come in, we have put together a short guide to deliver a fool-proof chopstick eating technique, which will allow you to master the skill in no time. 

How to Hold Chopsticks

The first step to mastering chopsticks is learning how to hold them properly.

Here's a simple guide to get you started:

  1. Hold your dominant hand loosely. Place the first chopstick in the valley between your pointer finger and thumb. Balance it on your ring finger. 
  2. Place the second chopstick in the valley between your pointer finger and thumb along with the first chopstick, but rest this one on your middle finger instead of your ring finger.
  3. Use your thumb, pointer and middle fingers to grasp the second chopstick a bit more tightly. For pictures to help show how this works in practice, you can look at images 1 to 3 in the step by step breakdown in the following section. 

How to Use Chopsticks Step by Step

Now that you know how to hold chopsticks, let's learn how to use them to eat:

  1. The first chopstick (on the bottom) remains more or less stationary, this should always be the case. The index and middle fingers do all the heavy lifting with the second chopstick. Using your index and middle fingers to move the top chopstick up and down, open up your chopsticks. 
  2. Close them over the food. Remember to keep your hand loose but still maintain good control over that chopstick. Don't worry if it's not perfect and you drop a few pieces of food on your first few tries. It takes time to master using chopsticks successfully. 

How to Use Chopsticks for Noodles

Using chopsticks for noodles can be a bit trickier, but with practice, you'll become a pro in no time.

Here are a few tips:

  1. Use the chopsticks to lift a small portion of noodles from the bowl or plate.
  2. As you lift the noodles, twist your wrist slightly to help wrap the noodles around the chopsticks.
  3. Once you have a manageable amount of noodles on your chopsticks, lift them to your mouth and slurp them up. It's not only acceptable but encouraged to slurp when eating noodles with chopsticks!

How to Use Chopsticks for Kids

    If you're teaching your kids how to use chopsticks, consider the following tips to make the process more accessible and enjoyable:

    1. Use chopstick helpers or training chopsticks, which have a connected top that makes it easier for little hands to maneuver.
    2. Encourage your child to practice with larger, easy-to-grasp items like marshmallows or cotton balls before moving on to real food.
    3. Be patient, and remember that it takes time and practice to master the art of using chopsticks.

    How to Eat with Chopsticks: Common Foods and Techniques

      Now that you know the basics, let's explore some common foods and techniques for eating with chopsticks. 

      How To Eat Sushi With Chopsticks

      Sushi can be quite challenging to eat with chopsticks due to the dipping and gripping required.

      The best way to eat sushi with chopsticks is to first, pick up the sushi with your chopsticks around the middle of the piece and with a gentle but firm grip. Too tight, and you're going to cut the piece in half. Too gentle, and you'll drop it.

      Now you have the sushi, drip it fish side down into soy sauce and eat in one bite. If you feel as though your mouth is too full, cover it with your hand as you chew.

       sushi and chopsticks

      How To Use Chopsticks With Ramen

      Ramen is a completely different ball game altogether as we introduce a soup and noodle combination.

      The best way to eat ramen with chopsticks is to first, use the chopsticks to grab a bunch of noodles and then slurp them up! This may sound messy, but it's actually the most effective way to get the noodles into your mouth without making a complete mess (and the 'slurping' is actually considered a sign that the food is delicious in Japan).

      Then, you can use your chopsticks to pick up any toppings or vegetables that you want.

      And finally, drink the soup directly from the bowl. While this technique might seem unnatural, it's the only way and most enjoyable.

        What are the Different Types of Chopsticks?

        Now that we know how to hold and how to use chopsticks, we must understand that not all chopsticks are created equal! There are actually a few different types of chopsticks, each with its own unique benefits.

        To start with, metal chopsticks are certainly the most durable, but are not friendly for beginners to learn how to use. 

        If you're new to the chopstick game, we would certainly recommend starting out with a quality pair of textured chopsticks - these are much easier to use as the texture provides grip.

        Another great beginner design is the lightweight chopsticks - these are elegant and can be manoeuvred easily between your fingers. Once you've gotten the hang of using chopsticks, feel free to experiment with different materials and designs! 


        Top Restaurant Chopsticks Tips and Manners

        While learning to eat with chopsticks can seriously step up your elegance at the dinner table, there are some things that should be taken into account, especially in a Japanese restaurant.

        1. Don't skewer food using chopsticks
        2. Resist the urge to point with your chopsticks
        3. Don't leave your chopsticks crossed on your bowl or on the table
        4. If you wish to share food, don't pass from one pair of chopsticks to another


          We really hope these tips and tricks have helped you to master the art of using chopsticks.

          Remember these things take time, and it is as much about the attempt to learn a new eating technique and food culture, as it is about doing it perfectly first time.

          The most important thing is to enjoy your food, and of course only buy high quality, sustainable chopsticks that will make your overall experience much more enjoyable.

          Remember to be patient with yourself, especially if you're a beginner or teaching your kids. By following our step-by-step instructions and incorporating the tips provided, you'll be well on your way to becoming proficient in using chopsticks for noodles, sushi, rice, and more.

          So, the next time you find yourself at a restaurant or enjoying a meal at home, give chopsticks a try.

          Not only will you impress your friends and family with your newfound skills, but you'll also be able to appreciate the culinary traditions and cultures that have embraced these elegant utensils for centuries. 

          Our personal favourite and most beautiful Hasu gold tipped chopstick range is presented below:


          Thank you for reading, happy eating!